Life is so interesting. And I think relationships are at the core of this life. When you think about it, that’s what God is all about. The whole Old Testament tells about him trying to get Israel to realize connection with him was really the BEST. And Jesus came so we could have relationship.

Well, among all of these cool human relationships, there is a little variation. Ok, ALOT of variation. And it comes in the form of romance. God has put all different kinds of love on this planet. But the one I’m thinking about right now is the kind of love a g irl gets for a guy, or a guy has for a g irl. This is something God created, and that God loves. We just got through with this series on in youth group, and now, it’s def. on my mind.

It’s annoying that regarding relationships, sometimes, you just have to learn through trial and error. Like, my one serious boyfried. I really cared for him, but he wasn’t the right guy. Does that mean i wish we wouldn’t have dated? Well, yes and no. I’m glad we dated, I learned SO much through it. I just wish we hadn’t dated so long. But, why did it take mistakes for me to learn the lessons I’d heard from others all my life? Now, I see why in high school d ating can be such a bad idea. I’m not totally against it, but I think you shouldn’t put the boyfriend/girlfriend label on things until you are both pretty darn sure that you’re going to get married. And that’s just something i didn’t think about in high school. Things get serious, people get hurt, you have memories and baggage that you carry into your next relationship. I personally think it is a good idea to hang out with alot of different people, even date more than one person, before you decide to get married. But, hey, some can just date one man all their life and then decide to marry him, and it works out beautifully.

So, I’m not exactly wanting a boyfriend right now, just thinking about this amazing phenomenon. Cause it really is amazing to me. Ever since we were little, ok, well, ever since I was little, I have thought about getting married. Now, I’ve decided, I’d be ok if God had other plans. But, that doesn’t mean I don’t still daydream about it. Romance is so beautiful. Awwwwwwwwwwwww.